Dating wise, America is paradise for women and hell for men!

Its really beginning to look like slim-pickins’ out there in the modern Western dating world if you’re looking for attractive, young women who are worthy of dating. There are still some tight, young, slim girls out there, but the competition for them is fierce. These women command a premium high above their actual SMV. A high supply of thirsty, sexually desperate men (represents sexual demand), combined with a very limited supply of attractive women creates a pretty tough market for the average man to compete in.

The San Francisco Bay Area (along with L.A.) are the best place in the country to be a single woman (if you’re into limp-wristed pansexual guys). In the US single men outnumber single women by one million in the 20 to 34 age group! Also to add to single mens misery, get this; IN EVERY CITY IN THE US OF 50,000 PEOPLE OR MORE, SINGLE MEN OUTNUMBER SINGLE WOMEN IN THE 20 TO 39 AGE GROUP! Holy dog shit, what a horrible dating scene for men in America! It’s only in the age group of single people 40 and up that single women start to outnumber single men in America. Add to this fact that America has the highest rate of overweight people in the world (50% of Americans are overweight) and you have a dating nightmare for men!

That’s why you never hear women in the US complain that they have a hard time meeting men. California is the worst state as far as the ratio goes for men. LA, San Diego and San Francisco are horrible places to try to meet women. San Jose, California has the worst ratio of single men to single women in the US. For every 1000 single women in San Jose, there are 1109 single men!

Research has also shown that as the sex ratio augmented in favor of women, at first, as you would expect, the women simply turned fussy and went for richer and more powerful men. But at a certain point a curious thing happened: the amount of socioeconomic status a guy needed to get girl increased way more than the math would predict. Specifically when the ratio was tilted in favor of women by 10%, low status men became not 1.1 times less likely to get a girl but 2.3 times less likely and high status men 1.3 times less likely.

In other words, increase the number of males in a system too much and the number of females interested in pairing up GOES DOWN, due to some mysterious psychological trigger known as the Paradox of Choice. Women won’t pick and choose, they won’t choose at all.

Abundant choice is not something human beings are biologically evolved to cope with. We’d be better off with fewer decisions to make. As the number of choices grows further, the negatives escalate until we become overloaded. Constantly being asked to make choices, even about the simplest things, forces us to invest time, energy, and no small amount of self-doubt, and dread. At this point, choice no longer liberates, but debilitates. It might even be said to tyrannize.

The demographics explain a lot of things that I noticed in the US- the blasee, cloyed and smug expressions on the women’s faces, the war-like attitude of men towards each other- they have to compete for scarce women and jobs and positions that will attract women. The way one American guy usually looks at another is politely but with mistrust and as a competitor. Time to visit “male friendly” countries like Brazil, eastern Europe and Russia

  • Stevex

    Wow..these are depressing numbers and pretty damn true. I would reccomend any big city in Texas for meeting women, lots of sluts.

    The east coast is probably the worst place to meet women though, particulary New Jersey and New York City…

    • Joe Smith

      Well that depends if you are looking for fat mouthy bitches than New Jersey is for you!!

      • Psu Lurker

        There are no good women in America. they are all mouthy bitches that are only concerned about money and what they can buy with it. they are also fat and the ones that aren’t have incredibly bitchy personalities. Asian and Indian women are probably a better choice. they seem to respect their men a bit more.

        • LR

          Asian and Indian women are married to Asian and Indian men. Be careful because Asian and Indian men are possessive over their wives and will kick your butts and kill you for throwing yourselves at them.

    • Karsus

      The ratio itself doesn’t seem so terrible, although I can imagine that more guys actively approaching girls would put up women’s defenses further.

      … Might also relate to being in a more liberal / feminist area. The more women get annoyed, they more they likely buy into that stuff and the negative impression often sold of men.

      • admin

        Ahah, doesn’t seem so terrible? You must be a girl, gay or asexual.

      • LR

        Keep in mind that more men will be throwing themselves at women, especially at married or taken women whose husbands or boyfriends will beat them up. The reason for high male-female ratios in most parts of the world is because most families will use sex selection technology and abortions to have sons, even in Russia and Eastern Europe, especially during the Cold War and communist eras where lots of female infants were aborted.

    • LR

      New Jersey and New York City don’t have enough good, quality women, either, due to female gendercides committed by families. But having such high male ratios benefits women.

  • Matt Hanson

    As far as men to women ratio, it appears America is a duplicate of China.

  • Lisa Ramos

    Everywhere in the world is an imitation of China and India because families abort girl babies in favor of boy ones, including here in North America. Stevex, single men outnumber single women in New York City and New Jersey, unfortunately, leading to growing violent crime over women since girl babies are terminated all over NY and NJ. And in Texas, you’ll meet mostly married women, same in Atlanta, where I come from. But beware, you’ll get attacked by their husbands or teen and/or grown sons.

    And meeting women in Russia, Eastern Europe, and Brazil will be difficult since they are also imitations of China and India with high male-female ratios which makes men in those countries very territorial over their women like in China, India, and North America. Same in other parts of Asia and Latin America as well as Southern Europe, except France in which male-female ratios are equal and French men sometimes don’t mind sharing their women with other men, especially foreigners. Middle East is just as bad as well due to female sex-selective abortions, honor killings, and mass killings of girls and women, which happen in other parts of the world too, including Africa. So therefore, if you want to meet a woman abroad and also here in North America, be prepared to get your ass kicked by local men, even if they are husbands or boyfriends of local women. Meeting women is very dangerous everywhere you go. Everywhere in the world is paradise for women, dating-wise, and hell for men so you guys better be careful.

  • Jake Macgapay

    Women are shrinking violets. There aren’t enough women to go around because we’re killing them off.

  • Guest

    What the author refers to as “paradox of choice” is actually Hypergamy. Hypergamy in the singles market means that essentially you have an animal-kingdom type dating scenario, even when you have an equal number of males and females. Now add to that a surplus of males, and you end up with our current nightmare.

  • llama256

    I lived in San Jose since I was 20 and I can completely concur on this. I always saw this as just the natural order of things, until I started to travel and realized I was just in a bizarre location.